Tenant Contact Info
If you’ve taken my Tenant Screening Course, you know I stress getting as much information as possible on your application and contacting all the references and contacts. It’s just your added benefit of making sure you get a really clear picture of who your potential tenant is and to make sure everything is consistent.
There is also some extra benefit from this as well.
If perhaps your landlord tenant relationship sours and you find yourself the victim of a midnight move, damages to the property you weren’t expecting and/or even just difficulties getting your rent, having knowledge of where the tenant works, contact information for relatives and friends and access to references can definitely work in your favor.
It’s always nice to try a have additional resources to contact when trying to track down a tenant who is avoiding you or owes you money, but it turns out there are other reasons as well.
Being a landlord can be a roller coaster, from the highs of getting your first rental property, your first tenant and even your first rent check to the darker side which at times it feels like it can shake your faith in people.
This week was another hill in my roller coaster. Every time I feel I’ve seen it all, I see something slightly different, both good and bad and this week had shades of both with multiple lessons learned.
When Tenants Impact Your Life
Over lunch with a landlord I’m mentoring this week we brought up a familiar subject, landlord tenant relations. As the saying goes with people in general, if you give them an inch, they’ll take a mile and this is especially true in a landlord tenant relationship.
The rules and boundaries you have in place need to be enforced so that you’re not taken advantage of. Whether it’s allowing a late rent payment, modifying your rules about pets or a myriad of other areas of leniency, you have to remember you have a business relationship, not a friendship with your tenants.
Having said this, when tenants have been part of your life for many years, it becomes more than just a tenant landlord relationship and when you lose one, it can be shocking.
And this week I lost a great tenant.
Kirk was a 70 year old fellow who had been with me in one of my shared accommodation properties since October 2008. Five straight years.
Through the tough years of the economic downturn and the good years of steady turn over, Kirk had been a rock in the house making sure it was clean, the other tenants were staying in line (or I quickly knew discreetly who the problem was) and acting as an ambassador to other incoming tenants.
He always made the new people feel right at home and was quick to welcome them from wherever they came. It was common in this house for Kirk to make a roast in the slow cooker or chili or some type of stew and to share it with everyone on Saturday and Sunday’s.
I mentally reviewed where some of the tenants I had in this short term accommodation had come from and the list was extensive. People from not just across Canada and the US but also Australia, Ireland, Poland, Russia, New Zealand, Mexico many countries in the Middle East and many more that I’ve likely forgotten. And they all seemed to comment about how Kirk made them feel at home.
Perhaps especially the young twenty year old currently staying at the house who called me Tuesday night to tell me that Kirk had passed away at work that day.
Kirk had treated him like his own son and understandably this young man was extremely sad to lose this fellow so close to him and such a rock in his life. It’s just a testament to what a great tenant and a good person Kirk was. Sure he had his demons, but he affected so many people in a positive way.
There was a long list of previous tenants who would often be repeat clients as they cam back through our city for work and they always wanted to be back in that house as they enjoyed being around him. It was a common occurrence to show up at the house and find one of these former tenants just stopping by to say hi to Kirk or taking him out for dinner as he had made such an impact on them.
He will be sorely missed
Which brings me full circle back to having current tenant information and the lesson learned from this. As a landlord, we often have to do things which make us uncomfortable. Be it confronting tenants, evicting tenants or simply saying no to tenant requests.
Well Tuesday night I had to make the uncomfortable call to Kirk’s daughter to inform her of the news. I wasn’t sure if she knew already or if I was going to have to pass on the news. I dreaded making that call, but as a landlord, I have responsibilities especially when it comes to doing what’s right, as touch as it may be.
The dread became worse when I discovered I broke my own rules and didn’t have the full phone number for her. Here I teach people to get contact info and I couldn’t even get this right. I had a partial phone number, but obviously at the time Kirk didn’t have the complete number.
Fortunately her number was in his room and I made the call.
Also fortunately, I wasn’t the first to talk to her. Kirk’s work had called her earlier in the day. I had a quick conversation and we arranged to meet later in the week so she could collect his things.
The next day I began to reach out to some of the former tenants I knew had often come back to see Kirk and it wasn’t long before my phone was abuzz with text messages as word spread. Many knew each other and the resounding message was how much he will be missed.
So just to close up, there are some lessons to be learned.
Even though many tenants often portray us as cold hearted landlords, and it may come across that way at times, tenants do affect us. I had quite a sleepless night that night and I know I will miss my tenant of so many years for more than just being a rock steady tenant. He was a good person.
Second, you need to stay on top of your tenant contact info. This is the second time I have had to deal with a death of a tenant and I also had to make a tough call that time as well. I’ve also had to call parents when tenants were badly injured and it’s never an easy thing to do, but imagine not being able to update loved ones about their sons or fathers.
So stay on top of your records and remember to treasure your good tenants, you never know how long they will be around.
CJ says
I have to say, what a great post! I’ve been following you for about a month now. I’m on the fence about being a landlord but found your site through youtube. There’s a lot of hohum information out there….and this has been educational and a fun read.
Thanks for sharing your story about Kirk. My dad lived in a rental for 25 years and when he passed away, in the home, the police actually contacted me and then his sister in law. Luckily, my dad had a card in his wallet of all his contacts. Because the house had changed hands over the years but my dad stayed. And my dad wasn’t very good about giving out his personal information but definitely your story is a reminder of how important.
Landlord Education says
Thank you CJ!
It’s always great to hear other peoples stories (so thanks for talking about your dad!) and by sharing my stories I hope it helps make this landlord business easier for them.
Regards,
Bill